Three years. Three years really is a long time if you think about it. Three years ago today, I gave birth to a little blue-eyed, blonde headed girl who has forever changed my life. She is the source of most of the comedy in our house and the source of most of my gray hair (but that’s a secret between me, Lori and God!).
Addison Lynn Bates, born 2/1/08 has a personality so much bigger than she is! She’s loud, she’s funny, she’s stubborn, she’s precocious, she’s loving, she’s practical, she does her best to run the show where ever she goes. She challenges me to live a better life so that I give her the best example I can of what a Godly young lady should live like. She’s also the reason I require as much coffee as I do to get through a day. She diligently reads her Bible and won’t let any of us get through the day without reading ours. And you can’t just tell her you did it, she has to SEE it happen. Daddy can’t walk out a door without praying with her. Payne can’t leave to play with friends without giving a hug and a kiss first. Mommy can’t possibly cook a meal without her expertise. She wants to make sure her shampoo loves Jesus and goes to heaven. But doesn’t want to go to heaven herself because that’s not where her house is. She’s a neat freak like no child I’ve ever seen, but prefers to tell you what needs to be done instead of doing it herself. She has a quick temper that results in lots of time outs. She’ll squeeze your neck so tightly in a hug that you might not be able to breathe. But you don’t care because you can feel the love coming through that squeeze. She chooses friends carefully, but already shows fierce loyalty.
She makes every day better. She’s our princess (and she makes sure we all know it!). And if the rest of our years are as adventurous as the first three, we need to fasten our seat belts now! Addi, Mommy loves you! Happy 3rd Birthday!
Do you ever have those moments with your children that completely and totally convict you? Today mine was with the 2-year-old. Both kids have been sick the last few days, so this morning when Addi woke up and came into our room, I asked her how she was feeling. She said her stomach and chest hurt from coughing, so I prayed for her. Her immediate response was, “It still hurts. Do it again.” I told her to just give Jesus a minute, that He was working on it. Her answer? “Jesus not need a minute! Pray again!”
Her expectancy was like a kick in the gut. I mean, I pray and I believe God can and will do things. But do I pray and expect immediate results? The conviction comes into play because often times I don’t pray that way. I pray for my children to be healed (or my family or friends), but expect that the doctor and medicine will be how we get it. Then when God does show up and do the miraculous, instant healing, I’m in awe, thrilled, of course. But truthfully, I’m surprised. I didn’t expect it.
I know that sometimes a delayed answer is God’s plan because of a path that we’d miss if we got an instant answer. But I can’t help but wonder how often we go down a longer path because we don’t expect a shorter one?
At the very least, praying with the expectancy that my 2-year-old prays with will build more trust & faith in God and His outcome. And that in itself is huge. But what if God met us in the place of our expectancy and moved bigger?
A new goal for this year for me is to pray with the expectancy of my 2-year-old. Then truly expect God to move.
Our family, along with our church, is almost half way through our third Daniel Fast. This Fast challenges me every time we do it. This time the challenge has come more spiritually than on the food side. Don’t get me wrong, I’m struggling without my coffee, but my battle is spiritual this time.
During our first fast 2 years ago I miscarried. At the time it was totally God timing that it happened during the Fast because we had drawn so close to God during the first 2 weeks that I could literally feel God carrying me through. This time the Fast is (or was) a constant reminder of what I lost the first time. The first week was a huge struggle and I can honestly say that if I weren’t on staff at the church, I probably would have just quit.
But this weekend was a breakthrough. I finally allowed God to do what He wanted to do all along. The Fast and the miscarriage no longer “connect” for me. It’s actually something I added to my DF prayer list after we got started. And it conveniently ties into the message series we have at church for this month: Baggage.
How often does our “baggage” hold us back from what God wants to do with us, in us, through us? Why do we hold so tightly to that baggage that does nothing but peel the scab off of healing wounds? I don’t understand it, but I know we all do it. My new prayer for the rest of this fast is for God to reveal other “baggage” that I have so that I can leave it on the platform (you’d have to see our “baggage” covered platform right now to know what I mean). God is good. And he wants my baggage!
Do you ever sit in awe of the ways God chooses to bless you? Today I was reminded of God’s blessing, yet again! And that caused me to reflect on similar blessings we’ve seen over just the last few months!
After a year living in our house, we finally got our loft/office space all cleaned out & organized. Then decided we should finally buy an office chair to go with our desk. I ran to Staples today after church to grab a chair that I had seen on sale just a couple of weeks ago. Got there and it was still on sale for $10 less than the list price. Perfect! Just what I was planning on. But God had another plan. I went to check out and my total didn’t seem right (I had grabbed a couple of other things, too) but the cashier assured me it was. After I got to the car, I pulled out my receipt to see why the total was so much less than I expected. Our chair, advertised as $10 off, was actually $36 off! I know that some who read this may not see it as God’s blessing or provision, but you’ll never convince me of that. See, for me, when God moves in those “small” things, it reminds me that the “big” things are nothing to sweat.
Just before Christmas I had another one of those unexpected blessings. I had seen a picture at a Christian book store that I immediately was enamored with. I checked the price and thought the $150 being asked for it was reasonable, but didn’t buy it then. We still had Christmas shopping to do! I figured I’d see if I ended up with any Christmas money and then go back and buy it. Not too long after, my father-in-law sent us all money for Christmas. Plenty from that to go buy my picture. Plus I had a 30% off coupon! But I didn’t go right away. The Saturday before Christmas I decided to brave the shopping center and finish off our Christmas shopping. My first stop? The Christian book store! I went in, asked the salesman to get my very large picture off the wall and went to pay. When I got to the register, and got my total I was shocked. For that one day only my picture was 50% off. Plus I still got to take my 30% off of that! Just another “small” thing that shows me again that God is taking care of us.
Those are just 2 examples of things the last few months. We’ve had prescription discounts that we didn’t even ask for, doctors decide not to bill us, gifts that were totally unexpected…the list goes on. I know these blessings seem to all be financial, but it goes deeper than that. It’s a reminder that God is in control. It’s a reminder that God doesn’t just concern himself with our “necessities” but also cares about the desires of our hearts. It’s a reminder that God meets us where we are. It’s a reminder that God provides in the most creative of ways and a lot of times not in ways we expect. It’s a reminder to, as the beautiful picture that now hangs above my couch says, “Be still and know that I am God”
God wants to bless us in every area of our life. “What’s the price of a pet canary? Some loose change, right? And God cares what happens to it even more than you do. He pays even greater attention to you, down to the last detail-even numbering the hairs on your head.” Matthew 10:29-30 (MSG)